OverlanderJK
Resident Smartass
And if I remember correctly you run some of the heaviest 35s one can buy... Several 37s weigh more.
A buddy is running the same combo as you and the spots started to fail at about 25k miles (with the 35s, 35k was on the Jeep) I helped him weld a plate that had holes across it that lined up with spot locations. I then welded in the holes like a plug weld. He painted the gate and has been running this way for a year. IT seems to have really helped reinforce the gate. Best part... Total cost was less than $20!
I'll try to get some pics.
Yeah it's not light that's for sure. My setup is about 110 pounds and has been setup properly since the first day I put it on there. Over time though I knew it would happen.